Does gender influence the ability to "be here now"?

seth_b
but yeah ... with some of my chick friends its just a lot of GOSSIP

ubergheyness
yah

seth_b
dudes just talk about whats going on right then and there

chicks talk about everything else thats not happening right then and there

ubergheyness
girls are always worried about the past or the future

seth_b
like what happened yesterday or what they want to happen tomorrow

really kind of annoying

hehehe

Im over exaggerating a bit

ubergheyness
or they only talk about somethign related to a guy

that they need to find more guys to date or wish a guy would call them back

or they need to go shopping so they can look cute and get a guy

very sad

seth_b
geh ... yeah

thats why its so much easier to have dude friends

you just talk about the moment more I feel

ubergheyness
for sure

seth_b
or things that have happened that relate to that moment

like ... "dude this one time my buddy and I ....... "

did something that reminded you of something happening then

ubergheyness
yah not an out of the blue topic that they need to discuss to boost their own self esteem

or try to look good in front of people

seth_b
well ... I do that all the time

ie ... shirtless